Stop providing your abusers with information or anything that they can later on use against you in order to bring you down.

No good news, no personal preferences or stuff that you like, no casual opinion about something that you don’t care about, no acting in a friendly manner because you’re human, no nothing.

The purpose of them turning everything you say or do against you isn’t only in utilizing information about you that could come in handy in facilitating the process of bringing you down for good in a few minutes, it’s about making you associate everything beautiful in this world with massive amounts of pain, until you can no longer function normally as well. It’s about induction of loss of motivation to do anything in you as quickly as they can. They want you to feel or be totally helpless in order to encounter no resistance while trying to destroy you and everything good about you.

This is where you become an easy target for them, that they can do what they want with it, without that target offering them any resistance.

No answer or short reply can save you from being further abused. Say absolutely nothing. Go no contact, and never look back. Prioritize yourself, for once.

Stop sabotaging your professional or career life just to attract a better man. If they have a problem with your success, it’s probably the result of their inferiority complex or insecurity.

For all successful women out there. No degree of masculinity would ever make a man unable to love or make love to a woman because she’s too successful or financially independent. If anything, these things are an asset that makes him love you even harder.

Their hatred for any of these aspects about you is only a direct result of their major inferiority complex and incompetence.

He doesn’t deserve you, you’re way out of his league, and he doesn’t have what it takes to ever deserve you or to ever qualify for having any kind of relationship with you.

Please, I urge you to not get sucked into this. This is sad at this point. Ease of access and naivete exacerbate the problem. Nobodies are entitled and are aiming high all the time. Don’t end up being their ideal victim. You deserve the best.

Please don’t quit your business or dream job because some insecure person told you to do so because of the kids, to be able to love you more or better, or for whatever reason they can give you for trying to make you give up on your dream or best life.