You will never break your chains, and start moving forward in life, and make progress, unless you realize that any guilt you have or feel after doing anything good for you or positive in your life that can make anything whatsoever better in your life, is entirely because of narcissistic abuse.

None of the voices that make you feel guilty after you post, do something creative, or make progress in your life, is true.

Think about it, is it you who really think there’s no hope, you should stop, it is pointless to even try, or is it the narcissist.

Narcissistic abuse is the only reason you feel bad or guilty after doing anything that is good for you or can make your life better in any way, going after the life that you truly want, doing anything that you want or makes you happy, fixes your life, or makes anything in your life better, working on yourself or your business, increasing your creative output, expressing yourself and what you think, and making any progress in your life of any kind. That is not because you think nothing works, or nothing whatsoever will make anything in your life better. It’s because you’ve been subjected to an endless amount of narcissistic abuse in the past, and it is still ruining your life every second of every day, regardless of your situation.

All you need is to realize that it’s not you, and it’s all narcissistic abuse and the psychopathy that you had to deal with in the past, and it all has nothing to do with you or your situation or circumstances, and now it’s time for you to go all in, without ever looking back, like there’s no tomorrow, because there’s nothing wrong with you. It’s time for you to break free, and do what you want.

Ask yourself, if it weren’t for narcissistic abuse, and the psychopathy of my abusers, will I still do this? If the answer is still yes, then what are you waiting for? 

All the self-loathing that takes place right after you post, that you feel right after you do something amazing, creative, brilliant, or good for you, objectively speaking, is because of narcissistic abuse, and what it did to you in the past. It is going to show up every time you try to exist. Every single time you do something the narcissist would disapprove of or think is wrong for you to do, choose, or waste your life trying to do.

Do not listen to this voice. Do not let it hold you back. Do not let it ruin your life. There’s nothing wrong with you. Do what you truly want.

This is your life. Make the most out of it.

The reason why you’re losing in life, is because you don’t use your intelligence.

The reason why you’re struggling, is because you don’t use your intelligence.

You don’t think. You don’t use your brain. You don’t use your intelligence. You don’t ask yourself what should I do now in that situation, because there’s an algorithm. A formula, that you have to use, in order to navigate through any given situation. A method. A plan. A strategy. A certain pathway, that you always have to follow, regardless of the situation, or what’s happening in front of you.

You were told, that you have to focus on what you have under your control. What you have influence over. What you can change. You are not allowed to aspire to change anything, unless you can do something about it. Otherwise, it’s none of your business, and you should treat it as if it doesn’t exist. Find a workaround. So, you end up not seeing what’s right in front of you, and you proceed according to plan, regardless. And that’s why nothing ever changes, and you never see it like it is, but you see it in terms of whether you can do something about it, or not. So you end up detached from the ability to detect the truth. And you end up detached from reality. Which forces you to suspend your intelligence, and just following what the strategy that is supposed to get you the intended outcome says.

And you master following the strategy, with disregard to what’s taking place in front of you, until you master succeeding, without ever thinking, or using your intelligence.

I call that success, despite not using your intelligence. Ever.

You will then spend all your energy, suppressing your intelligence, and what you think is true, or the right way to go or deal with the situation at hand, and just barely pushing yourself to keep following the strategy regardless of what you think, or what’s happening in front of you, because you were told it works, or it’s the only way that works. And then you end up fatigued, exhausted, and burnout prematurely. Thinking that this saves you energy, because somehow you believe that using your intelligence, will be more energy depleting, demanding, or consuming.

The only way to unlock your full potential, is to use your intelligence.

The only way to deal with any situation, and navigate through anything, handle anything, face anything, and overcome any challenges whatsoever, is to use your intelligence.

The only way to become better, stronger, and faster, is to use your intelligence.

The only way to reach high or maximum or peak performance, is to use your intelligence.

The only way to reach and stay at peak shape, is to use your intelligence.

The only way to reach and attain sustained success, in the face of anything, is to use your intelligence. 

The only way to reach your best and highest version of yourself, and reach your full and highest potential, abilities, skills, talents, creativity, intelligence, intellect, and powers, humanly possible, is to use your intelligence, to the fullest, at maximum capacity, all the time, every millisecond of every single day, regardless. Forever. No matter what.

Failure to do so, will only lead to a life where you never feel alive, happy, successful, fulfilled, living up to your full potential, or satisfied.

Reluctance or refusal to do so, for any reason whatsoever, will lead to a life where you are constantly trapped in perpetual never-ending cycles of failure, despite doing everything right, and following all recommended strategies, techniques, methods, and formulas out there in the whole multiverse, over and over again, ad infinitum, simply because the only formula for success is, understanding that nothing works, nothing ever works, nothing will ever work, except attaining the intended outcome.

Simply because, there’s no formula for success, and because the method for success is using no method, but reacting and adapting according to the situation, and what’s happening right in front of you, using your intelligence.