You will never break your chains, and start moving forward in life, and make progress, unless you realize that any guilt you have or feel after doing anything good for you or positive in your life that can make anything whatsoever better in your life, is entirely because of narcissistic abuse.
None of the voices that make you feel guilty after you post, do something creative, or make progress in your life, is true.
Think about it, is it you who really think there’s no hope, you should stop, it is pointless to even try, or is it the narcissist.
Narcissistic abuse is the only reason you feel bad or guilty after doing anything that is good for you or can make your life better in any way, going after the life that you truly want, doing anything that you want or makes you happy, fixes your life, or makes anything in your life better, working on yourself or your business, increasing your creative output, expressing yourself and what you think, and making any progress in your life of any kind. That is not because you think nothing works, or nothing whatsoever will make anything in your life better. It’s because you’ve been subjected to an endless amount of narcissistic abuse in the past, and it is still ruining your life every second of every day, regardless of your situation.
All you need is to realize that it’s not you, and it’s all narcissistic abuse and the psychopathy that you had to deal with in the past, and it all has nothing to do with you or your situation or circumstances, and now it’s time for you to go all in, without ever looking back, like there’s no tomorrow, because there’s nothing wrong with you. It’s time for you to break free, and do what you want.
Ask yourself, if it weren’t for narcissistic abuse, and the psychopathy of my abusers, will I still do this? If the answer is still yes, then what are you waiting for?
All the self-loathing that takes place right after you post, that you feel right after you do something amazing, creative, brilliant, or good for you, objectively speaking, is because of narcissistic abuse, and what it did to you in the past. It is going to show up every time you try to exist. Every single time you do something the narcissist would disapprove of or think is wrong for you to do, choose, or waste your life trying to do.
Do not listen to this voice. Do not let it hold you back. Do not let it ruin your life. There’s nothing wrong with you. Do what you truly want.
This is your life. Make the most out of it.
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