The biggest lie you were told your whole life is pain is good for you. You will never improve, get better, or make anything whatsoever become better, much less reach your full potential, or become the best or highest version of yourself, through pain, or exposure to pain, or going through pain, of any type, from any source, and for any reason, whatsoever.
That is just a lie, told by people to justify not helping you when you’re in need, without feeling bad about themselves, or without looking bad in front of others.
I’m not going to help you. Why? Because it’s good for you! Why would you need help with that! You’d miss out on the opportunity of learning and growing Because of all this pain if I just made it go away with my superpowers.
A lie, that began with religion, to explain why God never helps when needed, to an extent that makes it feel like he’s good as non-existent in the first place, and then this beautiful lie that was originally used to justify evil and immorality, or doing nothing against evil and immorality despite being all-knowing and omnipotent, with infinite endless powers, was then told by rich people, or by the government, to shut down the masses, whenever they complain about unfairness of any sort, lest they would start a revolution, or at least stop obeying the law, in its entirety, because they’ve had enough, even under non-religious tyrannical dictatorships.
If I can make it seem like there’s something wrong with you, every time you complain about something being objectively bad for you, and only good for others, then instead of you becoming more powerful in the face of injustice and unfairness, you would introspect, and think inwards, instead of modifying or changing your external reality.
You know what lies in this canister? The power to make change, and it terrifies you. ~ Ultron
And the self-help industry took that lie, and never questioned it, but instead, their corruption has led them to adopt the belief that it’s actually good for you, to do what’s objectively is bad and harmful for you; pain.
And suddenly all people screaming in agony and crying rivers of tears in pain, suffering, they, they are wrong. They are bad. They are negative. They have a wrong and bad perspective. Bad and false and wrong belief, that pain is bad for them, somehow.
So you end up isolated even further. Alienated, as a freak. Because you have human emotion. Because you feel. Because you can be in pain.
You see, it is pain, that makes you become aware of all this.
It is pain, that breaks down mental barriers.
It is pain, especially if it’s excessive, and beyond the point of human tolerance, that makes you say, enough.
Whatever that is causing you such pain has to stop, for good.
I will learn how to stop people from dying. – Anakin Skywalker
The difference is that they want you to do nothing in the face of pain, and change nothing about your external world or reality, because pain, according to them, is good for you, so why make it stop. They want you to stop feeling pain, in order for the causes of pain to persist. To remain in your life unchecked, unopposed, unfiltered, as is, without you ever aspiring one day to make them stop, or cease to exist. Without you ever aspiring or trying to make the reasons why this pain is happening to you, and keeps happening to you, that is, the causes of pain, no longer happen to you ever again. No longer take place ever again. No longer exist. For good.
This is how pain can lead to change, because pain is bad for you and has to stop, by any means necessary, and now you suddenly have the capacity and energy to move mountains in order to make sure it never happens again, for good.
It is not the feeling of pain that needs to stop. It’s what’s causing you to be in pain in the first place. That is what you should eliminate out of your life for good, and make sure never happens to you ever again.
It’s okay to be in pain. It is the causes of pain, that have to stop. It is what has led you to be exposed to what’s causing you pain, that has to cease to exist, and no longer happen or take place in your life, ever again, for good.
Pain is bad. Pain is wrong for you. Do not let it happen to you. There is no growth, learning, or any improvement whatsoever, that can ever happen from, or as a result of, or because of chronic or acute exposure to pain, no matter what.
Anybody else who tells you otherwise, has lied to you.
Avoid pain, at all costs, by any means necessary, and then you will have a chance to unlock and reach your full potential.