Most people who attack you for advocating for cutting toxic people out of your life are just people who failed in life because they didn’t do it, and they think you not failing for the same reason is so unfair they need to do something about it. They need to talk you out of it, so that they don’t end up being the only ones who saw the answer right in front of them but hesitated to implement it. This is what misery loves company is all about. Cut them out, before you regret it for the rest of your life.

Or, they’re outright toxic people or narcissists themselves. And you also need to cut them out of your life as well.

Remember, no true survivor in their right mind who is not trauma-bonded and who successfully escaped narcissistic abuse early enough for good and is not a narcissist or a psychopath or sociopath themselves, would ever tell you to not go no contact. They will all tell you it’s the only thing you need to do if you’re still stuck under narcissistic abuse.

There’s no such thing as healing when you’re still stuck or trapped under narcissistic abuse, no matter what.

You cannot heal in the same environment or physical location where the abuse took place in, no matter what you do or how hard you try.

The only answer is to escape, save yourself, save your life, and go full, total, and absolute no contact with all of your abusers, for good, no matter who they are or what they did, no matter what.

Any other proposed solution when you’re still under narcissistic abuse is delusional.