The only thing – or the most important thing – that women need from you is competence.

Is being competent. Nothing else. They are like a very accurate test for that. And they love to keep testing that over and over again forever. It is like the purpose of the relationship is to keep testing you and assessing how competent you really are. The entirety of the relationship is built upon the fact that you’re competent enough for her to bother sleeping with you or paying any attention to you. I’m telling you this just so you know that whenever the relationship starts to fail, it’s because she’s sensing that either your competence level upon which she decided to pursue a serious relationship with you turned out to be fake, or started to change or not be enough for her to not perceive her being in a relationship with you as a total waste of her time, energy, beauty, youth, life, and sexual attractiveness. In short, she left you, or fantasized about leaving you, because you suck as a human being, on all levels, not because you made a mistake, you weren’t handsome or cool enough, you were broke, you got fired from your job, you sold your exotic car because you needed the money, you didn’t buy her flowers, chocolates, or a gift on valentine’s day, or you started to treat her in a bad way. She can take anything from you. She is a well of giving, and support. She thrives upon that. She would give it for free, only if you’ve successfully demonstrated that you’re competent enough every step of the way; a man worthy of her.

Please don’t consider my statement here to be sexist. I firmly believe in equality between men and women. I strongly believe in gender equality and the equality between the sexes in every way. I am not trying to describe women as being lesser beings or say that they lack anything. I am not saying that women just sit back among the audience to cheer men and just provide support, while men build, and do all the work, achievement, winning, and serious stuff. I believe that women should work, and be financially independent from men. And I also believe that women should always try to work, have a career, and pursue ambitious goals and aspirations, even without them needing the money, or not even for financial motivations, but just for the fulfillment that they can get from exercising their rights to do what they want in society unchecked as full human beings, not something that is just present to help men do all the fun stuff and accomplish great things. Again this isn’t about undermining women in any way possible. I urge you to reconsider if you thought that this is my intent from discussing such topics, or that this accurately describes how I generally view women to be like. This is just an observation of the fact that women don’t want us men to be better than them or to compete with them and be more successful than them at anything. You don’t have to be richer than the woman to impress her. You just have to not be a loser yourself. Genuine competence is all it takes to impress the woman and make her regard you as super man. You don’t have to beat her in anything thinking that this will make her succumb to your will and submit to you as a superior person. You don’t have to make her feel that you’re physically stronger than her. She doesn’t want any of that, and she will be repelled by you if you attempt to do any of that, because it then means that you’re weak enough to feel insecure about yourself and how good you really are to the extent that you had no choice but to compete with her as if you’re rivals, not partners or people who love each other and should work together to make everything better. The moment you sink to the level of trying to prove to her that you’re better than her – or infinitely worse, better than her own kids – at anything there is, she will instantly dismiss you as incompetent, because if you were man enough you’d be focused on what makes her happier, better, stronger, more successful, healthier, younger, and more beautiful. The moment you try to compete with her is the moment she detects that you suck as a human being because you’re not man enough to gain infinite pleasure from pandering to whatever that makes her feel good at that moment, including wanting what’s best for her, not what’s best for you. We view women as creatures that are destined for sacrifice when all they want is to test whether or not men are willing to sacrifice anything just to ensure that she is doing better in life. She wants you to not have a problem with putting how she feels ahead of anything. Then she’d leave you and not push you to actually make the sacrifice. Just showing the willingness to do so because you love her so much and she’s not just an object for pleasure to you that you’d toss away whenever it becomes annoying. Which brings us to the final lesson here: don’t enter a relationship with a woman unless you are willing to grant her that level of importance, because if you can’t, your life will be hell, and it would be your sole responsibility, all because you didn’t pick a woman that you really loved enough, to not consider what’s best for her to be only an unnecessary luxury that you don’t care about, because that my friend, would be the ultimate exposure of how incompetent you really are, or how much you really don’t love her, and in both cases, the woman would have divorced you in her mind long ago.