Don’t say nah, this person is very likely to reject my offer or is not gonna buy from me. This person doesn’t look like the type of person who will respond to my request or answer my question. It’s impossible that this individual would ever consider bothering checking out the DM. It’s impossible that such individual will be interested in what I have to say, or what I want from them. Just expose them to the thing. And then leave. What they do after that should not be a matter of concern to you. Make the offer. And then move on, without any disappointment or slowing down, regardless of who they are or whether or not they’re going to take the action you expect from them. Then move on to the next target. Don’t say I shouldn’t be wasting my time with these people because they look like they’re not the type of people who would be interested in such things. Just offer them anyway, like a bot, without discrimination, then leave. The majority of them surprisingly respond enthusiastically with huge interest. It’s not because you don’t know how people think. It’s because other people do not stick consistently or act always according to how they really think. They contradict their nature. Keep that in mind, and don’t let your mind-reading abilities diminish the extent of your reach. You never know who will respond positively to your request or answer your question.
Day: June 11, 2020
Just speak your mind. Say what you’ve got. Focus on discovering stuff.
Don’t be afraid of the fact that what you post might not provide anyone else with value. Concern yourself with putting out correct and accurate stuff, with disregard to whether or not this will bring value to or benefit anybody. This, my friend, will guarantee that what you do will bring maximum value and benefit to the whole world, because the intention of wanting to help others will want you to put out stuff that makes you get feedback from people telling you how much what you’ve said has changed their lives. But when you post stuff that you know is true, you will try to put out stuff that is really true regardless of the effect it has on others, or the feedback you get from them. This ironically enough brings most value, benefit, and change to the whole world, because the world needs the information that truly helps and works. Aim for value and you’d throw away almost all of what you have to say because you want them to get value, so this means rejecting great stuff because it might not fulfill the criteria of this is what the world needs right now. Aim for discovering true and accurate stuff that actually works and can really help and change lives, and you won’t be that selective with what you put out. This would dramatically enhance your creativity, and lead to you becoming more productive instead of eliminative or selective with your work, ending up providing the world with more value, help, and real benefit in the process. It’s a paradox. Aim for providing people with value, and you’ll miss the target and end up suffering from hyper-inhibition and becoming too selective and rejecting with what you say. Aim for saying great or correct stuff only, and you’ll end up achieving the goal of providing value way more than you could imagine. That’s why not giving a damn about what other people think is essential. It doesn’t only include hate and annoying comments. It includes pandering to what they would consider to be more helpful, valuable, or benefitial, and that happens automatically when you start thinking what could I post today that will bring people value. You will then be thinking with their minds and deciding what to put out according to what and how they think, not according to what you really think is something great.
Write down your Goals. Also write down the plans that will make you reach those goals.
Not only should you write down your goals clearly and in full detail, you should also write down the plans to make them come true in full detail as well.
Stop perceiving writing shit down as a good idea only for teenage girls.
It’s time to close those open loops in your head.
Do not leave unfinished business, tasks, or projects hanging in the air without them being taken care of or addressed. Deal with them. They occupy mental space. Either complete them, or cancel them altogether.
Clear your mind. You don’t want to be drained or exhausted before you even begin because of technical stuff like this.
This has a dramatic effect on your energy and the degree of your mindfulness.
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