Do not let the narcissist dictate your life. Do not let the narcissist determine what’s right or wrong for you or your life. Live life according to your values, and on your own terms.

Please, live life according to what you think, not what the narcissist thinks. 

Most of your thoughts and actions are governed and determined by what will not offend the narcissist. What the narcissist approves of. What the narcissist thinks you should do. What the narcissist thinks is best for you. What the narcissist or the psychopath will allow you to do.

Do not let the narcissist, psychopath, or abuser influence your decisions on anything whatsoever in life. This can happen on a subconscious level as well, even in the absence of the narcissist.

Live your life to the fullest. You’re free. Do what you want.

Counter that by thinking: I don’t care what the narcissist thinks.

There’s nothing wrong with you. Do what you want.