Acceptance of people for who they are should be about their personality and character only, not about their physical appearance. You are attracted to a girl because you like what you see, she is physically beautiful and attractive. If you are looking for a personality only, then you are looking for a friendship. When you find someone with an amazing personality, character, and mind you regard him or her as an awesome friend, and not necessarily as someone you’d be in a romantic and sexual relationship with, unless they are physically attractive and sexy to you. This is why sexuality exists. There are bisexual people because they are turned on and want to have sex with both males and females. If wanting to have sex is not found, they would just be friends like heterosexual people. Bisexual people will not settle for only friendship or just a friendship if they find the person of the same sex hot or sexy (that is in case the other person is available and they are not in a relationship or they are in an open relationship). If sexual attractiveness doesn’t matter, bisexual people would regard all those of their same sex as friends only, and will not be turned on, be attracted to, or be sexually aroused by anyone of their same sex, regardless of how hot, sexy, beautiful, physically attractive, or sexually attractive these people of their same sex are. Romance is not about the mind, the personality, or the character of the other person. Appearance, beauty, and how you look like significantly matters and is a cornerstone or a core part in what this relationship is based upon or what this relationship is about in the first place. It is not that the mind is the main thing and the body or the looks are the complementary factors or things in the sexual or romantic relationship, it is that the looks and the sexual attractiveness of the body of the other person is the main thing or factor upon which the sexual or romantic relationship is based upon and the mind, personality, and character are the complementary or additional factors or things that the sexual or romantic relationship is based upon or are the things and factors that make the sexual or romantic relationship stronger and more desired. Physical attractiveness is key and is core to any romantic and sexual relationship. If physical attractiveness disappears, there would no longer be a reason for the relationship to stay romantic and sexual. It would transfer to only a friendship or some kind of life partnership. It is surprising to find an lot of people missing that and believing that the one they are with in a long-term romantic and sexual relationship should love them only because of their personality, character, mind and how special and unique they are, regardless of their physical appearance or how attractive or sexy they are or at least how potentially attractive and sexy they are (that is, if they are not prepared now to look good, but if they take care of that in a few minutes they would look beautiful, like a woman who has just gotten out of bed in the morning, not looking very pretty, but after shit, shower, and breakfast, and maybe some makeup, she looks gorgeous. This is totally okay, and this is not the issue here. What cannot be fixed in the same day issues that make someone less physically and sexually attractive are what I am discussing at the moment. Like for example the lack of physical exercise or over eating that might lead to someone’s sexual or physical attractiveness decreasing after several years or several months of marriage. One of the issues that come with marriage is that there is some kind of psychological settling and comfort that arises from the lack of necessity to stay being able to attract anyone of the opposite sex (or the desired sex) because you are already stuck with one who would settle for whatever you become because they got no choice but to accept and make do with you regardless of how you look like or what you become like, and it will not be something easy to end this relationship, simply because you cannot end marriages too often or else the next marriage partner won’t take you seriously, and won’t believe you when you promise long term commitment. It will be like the boy who cried wolf. Many people say that if you love me you should accept me for who I am regardless of how I look, my body weight, my lack of physical fitness, my poor hygiene, my hair being messy, my appearance looking generally scary or repellent, or my appearance is generally turning anybody else off. Accepting someone for who they are should be concerning the mind only. The Character. The personality. What is inside this person. But for someone to keep loving his romantic or sexual partner or spouse, there should be a minimum standard or a minimum requirement of some beauty, physical attractiveness, or sexual attractiveness. The appearance should match (at least to a certain extent) how attractive and great the loved one’s mind, personality, and character are.