It’s a very, very interesting theory. I have a simpler one. You’re all not worthy. ~ Thor

Desire, is the starting point, of all achievement. ~ Napoleon Hill

There’s always a bigger fish. ~ Qui Gon Jinn

But if you become more than just a man, if you devote yourself to an ideal, and if they can’t stop you, you become something else entirely. ~ Batman Begins

I told you before the key isn’t to run faster than the enemy. The key isn’t being flexible either. It is in doing and being both faster and more flexible than the enemy, and in how fast you can switch and alternate between the two according to the situation.

If you wait for women to determine whether or not you’re the best, you’ll always fail. It means you already know you’re not the best from the start, but want her to think you’re the best, if you look or act a certain way in front of them.

Most of you guys think women have a super power that can make them detect how good you are on their own with disregard to how good you look on the outside and how you perform or act in front of them. They don’t. That’s why low value men deceive them all the time. That’s why they fall for the initial performance, and then discover it was all fake after marriage or after years or at least months of a committed relationship with that pseudo human being they got stuck with.

You see it all the time. And ask yourself: how could a gorgeous woman like her be with a guy so incredibly disgusting and incompetent like this insecure weak man?

Oh, he’s acting like he’s somebody when he’s around her and she felt nothing. She detected nothing.

Yeah, I detected that too. ~ Iron Man

She fell for it, because she doesn’t know any better.

So, you’re saying, we’re not losing with women because we are competing with Thor and Captain America and other flawless perfect top 0.0001 percent of men from all around the multiverse, but because we are also competing with all the rest of men below them until absolute rock-bottom of society? Even the most disgusting of human beings in human history?

Yes.

What is really going to bake your noodle later on is, you’re using the same tactics that make low value men deceive super beautiful high value women all the time, in a futile attempt to catch their attention, land the date, love bomb her into falling for you, only to discover how much of a worthless piece of shit you really are a few months later, and then blame it all on feminism, women’s rights, the liberation of women, women being highly educated, intelligent, successful, business owners or high ranking and valuable employees in a successful business not owned partially or totally by them, and being extraordinarily beautiful, fun, and intelligent, with a perfect personality and character and charisma, authenticity, openness, and being free spirited, doing what they want without restraint, and finally being free.

This is not just entitlement. This is what you expect from low value people, who want to still win without having what it takes. Without deserving it. Without having enough competence, abilities, skills, talents, intelligence, strength, speed, attributes, qualities, that make them deserve to win.

In short, you’re all are not worthy.

And you still want to win, despite not being worthy.

All the tactics that you use to get the girl despite the fact that you suck majorly as a human being, and not just as a man (you’re not by the way, you’re just male), will always backfire someday at some point sooner or later. And you would then think, like all low value men, not just below average men, but almost more than 98 percent of men, that there’s something wrong with women. That’s why throughout history, all those men had to control women against their will, in order to keep them.

Divorce is on the rise because men suck, not because women cannot be trusted. It is you who cannot be trusted with women, and that’s why they want out.

The game is always rigged in your favor, and women still give you endless chances that you don’t deserve, and you still lose. I don’t know what to say.

You have to understand that making love to women is something that we are only allowed to do once we deserve it. Once we are worthy. And that’s why women test you by talking to you for hours on end before they sleep with you, even though you still look the same. Because if you fail too much, she will then shut down and realize you’re not worthy of having sex with her, or any other woman, as long as you suck like this.

You are still trying to win and pass those tests despite being horrible in every way imaginable. All you did was deceive a girl who doesn’t know any better. But a highly educated incredibly smart and successful woman in her forties who has seen it all? Get away from me. Take your six packs and leave please. You are NOTHING. They both have the same female nature, one was trained enough to make the most of it, and one didn’t know what to do with it, and they can still be easily deceived, because their skills are incomplete.

The force is with you young Skywalker, but you’re not a Jedi yet.

And psychopathic, and narcissistic low value men like you think that since it worked on naive women in their twenties, that this is female nature, and this is what women want, and this is how to get a date with any girl, despite being worthless in every way, shape, or form imaginable.

If only women in their forties can become in their twenties again, with all those powers and experience they’ve acquired throughout the years, it will be heaven on earth, and low value men would know their place, for good.

Women are never wrong. You just suck.

And you want to land them, despite not being worthy.

The way to get all the girls is to become perfect in every way there is, in the absolute sense of the word perfect. Flawless. The best man who ever lived, or could ever exist.

The most fantastic human being who ever lived. ~ Andrew Tate

As long as you are trying to get the girl despite not being worthy of her, you will get rejected internally before she actually directly rejects you. Your subconscious will sabotage you in ways that exposes how much you don’t deserve to be with her, even push you to sleep with her best friend just to make her break up with you for good. Best case scenario will be you’ll stay with her forever, but the fights will never end. It will be the most miserable experience of your whole life, up to physical illness because of the relationship, and you will not be able to leave, because you love her. You will enjoy none of it, because you don’t deserve it, because you’re not worthy.

Why is that a good thing?

Why, Mr. Anderson, why, why, why do you do it, why, why get up, why keep fighting?

You believe you’re fighting for something? For more than your survival?

Can you tell me what it is, do you even know?

Is it freedom, or truth, perhaps peace, could it be for love?

Illusions, Mr. Anderson, vagaries of perception, temporary constructs of a feeble human intellect trying desperately to justify an existence that is without meaning or purpose.

And all of them as artificial as the Matrix itself. Although, only a human mind can invent something as insipid as love.

You must be able to see it Mr. Anderson, you must know it by now, you can’t win, it is pointless to keep fighting.

Why, Mr. Anderson, why, why you persist?

Because I choose to. ~ Neo, the Matrix Revolutions

Life is meaningless, and that’s why you deserve women.

The one who arrives at that conclusion, understands it, and figures it out on his own, through his own life experience, is the one who ironically enough, becomes worthy of all the girls, and women on earth, even the married ones.

There’s only one explanation for this, either no one told me, or no one knows. ~ Neo

I was meant to be new, I was meant to be beautiful. The world would’ve looked up to the sky, and have seen hope, seen mercy. Instead, they look up in horror BECAUSE OF YOU.

You’ve wounded me, I give you full marks for that.

But as the man says, what doesn’t kill me, just makes me stronger. ~ Ultron

No, I, am your father. ~ Darth Vader

Why do you think, all this is happening to you. Why you, in particular.

Everything the establishment says is wrong with you, is actually what’s right with you. ~ Garrett John LoPorto

Why does the dark side feel like the only way.

Why did the light fail you?

You’ll know endless torment ~ Prince Arthas

I was a fool to trust in the light. ~ Also Prince Arthas

You were the chosen one. You were supposed to destroy the Sith, not join them. Bring balance to the force, not leave it in darkness. ~ Obi-Wan Kenobi

You must understand that Neo, is the story of the chosen one who won, and Anakin Skywalker, is the story of the chosen one, who lost everything.

Sorry kid, you got the gift, but it looks like you’re waiting for something. Your next life maybe.. Oh, don’t worry about it. As soon as you step outside that door, you’ll start feeling better. You’ll remember you don’t believe in any of this fate crap. You’re in control of your own life, remember? ~ The Oracle 

You are losing in your life, not just with women, but when it comes to EVERYTHING, because you want to be in control of your life.

You call that being a perfectionist. You call that being careful because you’re wiser now.

You’re not cautious, Mr. White. ~ Gustavo Fring

When you look into her eyes, she notices the eye contact feels different. Sustained, confident, not shaky, deep, and doesn’t break. It’s because you are lost in the deep ocean of her eyes, and you are drowning, and you don’t want anyone to come save you. You wanna stay there forever. And you will never be the one who breaks that eye contact first. You found something that you’ve been looking for, your whole life. And you’ve finally arrived at it. Nothing else is worth doing. There’s nothing else to look forward to. This is all that matters now, because nothing else matters. That’s why that eye contact CANNOT be faked, especially by a “man” who never lived. Never tried everything. Never failed endlessly despite doing everything right. Despite having what it takes and more every single time. Never suffered, and does not understand failure or suffering. Has no experience, no wisdom, no knowledge, no intelligence. Even if he has all the money, fame, and muscle in the world. He doesn’t exist. The absolute Vacuum she sees in his eyes is impossible to not notice. There’s nothing there. Just an endless void of a brain dead individual staring back at you with nothing but uncontrolled lust. There’s nothing there, and there’s nothing that can exist there, no matter what.

The message that this excessive failure despite doing everything right is you cannot become the chosen one, and unlock your full potential, as long as you insist upon being in total and absolute control of your life. You have to surrender. You have to give in. To your destiny. To what you’re truly meant to become, even if you didn’t want to.

YOU CAN’T GIVE IN! ~ Harvey Dent

You see, madness is like gravity. All it takes is a little push.

Laughs Maniacally in the background. ~ The Joker

Batman wanted to keep everything under control. The Joker wanted to teach him a few lessons.

Master Yoda HIMSELF failed miserably, because he wanted to keep everything under control.

Into exile, I must go. Failed, I have. ~ Master Yoda

Qui Gon was the opposite of that.

Obi-Wan, promise me to train the boy. He is the chosen one. ~ Qui Gon Jinn

Luke followed his passion, left before his training is complete, to save his friends.

Both masters who wanted to keep everything under control thought he failed for the last time.

Both were wrong.

You failed, your highness. I’m a Jedi, like my father before me. ~ Luke Skywalker

What are you trying to tell me? That all I need to become the one is to lose all control and become pure and absolute chaos?

No, Neo. I’m trying to tell you, when you’re ready, you won’t have to.

Remember when I told you it’s not about infinite speed in one direction, or ultimate flexibility in all directions, but about being capable of having both simultaneously, and switching between the two endlessly as need be without any rigidity?

It’s all coming together. ~ Spirit Breaker

Think of both as control, and lack of control, or chaos. Both the light AND the dark side. You need to master both simultaneously. Otherwise, you’ll always end up being a slave to one of them.

You think that’s air, you’re breathing?

All your life you’ve been in a cage, Padawan. When you are ready, break free. ~ Darth Malgus

You should be a monster. You know, because everyone says You should be harmless, virtuous, you shouldn’t do anyone any harm. You should sheath your competitive instinct. You shouldn’t try to win. You don’t want to be too aggressive. You don’t want to be too assertive. You want to take a back seat.

No, wrong.

You should be a monster. An ABSOLUTE monster. And then you should learn how to control it. Not cruel, but capable of cruelty. ~ Jordan B. Peterson

Stop trying to win by becoming good at just one thing. Stop trying to specialize when it comes to winning the hearts and minds and bodies of women.

Chancellor Palpatin, Sith Lords, are our specialty. ~ Master Kenobi

You have to have it all, otherwise, you have no chance.

You have to become perfect in every way possible, otherwise, you won’t stand a chance with women.

And it’s not their fault. It’s not hypergamy. It’s because women are trying to support the best humans who ever lived stay that way for good, as a reminder that they are on the right track, and that it is all worth it, in order to prevent them from giving up everything, because Nihilism is true.

You understand hypergamy wrong. Women are not here to chase the absolute best and never settle for anything less than the absolute best of men there is. They’re there to protect them, support them, and reward them for being who and what they are, because they are worthy of their protection.

Protection from asking themselves: why are we even here. Why are we even trying. What’s the point of all this suffering. Why me.

Smith was right, as always.

Neo didn’t give up, because it was his destiny. Because he now believes in fate. Because he no longer wants to be in control of his life. Because he is the one, and if he doesn’t get up and fight, no one else can stop his enemies.

Look into the eyes of all women when they admire you, when you’re truly successful, in perfect shape, and doing everything you were too lazy to do back when you were a kid just messing around all day long doing absolutely nothing. It’s not oh, he’s so beautiful, so hot. It’s we need a man like him. I need a man like him. I’m going to reward him for being who and what he is by sleeping with him. By giving him everything I’ve got and I can give to a man. He earned me and he deserves me, and I’m not going to hold back. They are rewarding you for being what and who you are. Supporting you. Not because they need you and your money because you’re a high value man. It’s because as a high value man, YOU need them. You need women. Otherwise, you’re lost. Nihilism, despair, hopelessness, helplessness, weakness, no energy, no motivation, no interest in anything or doing anything, no nothing. Just a god-like man who has it all but doesn’t give a damn anymore, because nothing in life, no matter how hard I try, seems to be worth it.

Which brings me back to the reason why we’re here. We’re not here because we’re free, we’re here because we’re not free. There’s no escaping reason, no denying purpose. Because as we both know, without purpose, we would not exist. ~ Smith

Why do you think high value men the second they become worthy they are given access to all the females on the planet even the married ones and the ones who are in committed relationships? Why would the universe want to do something like that? And it feels so right, like it’s the purpose of the universe?

It’s because you need their protection!

From the Sith? ~ Padme

From yourself! Otherwise, you lost. Before you even begin.

And women have realized, throughout the entirety of human history, that the only men who are worthy of protection, are men like you. Men, who have it all, without even trying.

Women know deep down inside, that men like you, are the only men worthy of their protection.

And the only reason they are here, is to keep you immortal. Fearless, balanced, all-powerful, happy, whole, and perfect.

Women need us to serve their purpose. We need women, to survive.

When I know you’re near, there’s nothing that I fear. ~ David Berkeley

They are not bad. But they are not exceptional either. There’s nothing extraordinary or special about them worthy of our attention.

There is a pattern that always exposes itself in TI. 

The team who picks Medusa in TI 2025 wins. 

The team who picks life stealer in TI 2026 wins. 

If Yatoro doesn’t pick Terror Blade, he will severely underperform. 

If the enemy team picks Shadow Fiend, they will be impressive on him as the guy we thought was the best Shadow Fiend player of all time. 

It doesn’t matter who is playing. All that matters is who picked the handful of heroes that always win. And there’s nothing particularly special about ANY of those heroes. They are all profoundly mediocre. Weak heroes, or average at best. And their performance with those heroes is okay at best, even though they are TI not just players, but winners. 

I’ve seen a GAZILLION Shadow Fiend players who are pure torture. Infinitely better than Yatoro on this hero could ever be. 

If I see his performance and say, not bad, but I’ve seen better. You should give pause. Seconds should go by. 

This is a three time TI winner. 

Tells me everything I need to know, about the skill level of people at the top. To me, nothing is more inspiring than that. They won TI, but they can still be stuck in guardian for life. They don’t know DotA. They don’t understand how to own 1 v 9 with every single core hero in the game against any matchup. With a KDA that looks like 33/2/25 every single game. 

And it’s not that people who are 10k MMR below them are any better. They are a disaster. 

This is the same inspiration I felt once I calibrated Archon, and found the difference between speed, talent, game knowledge, skill, and everything between Archons and heralds to be something like one percent. They are just highly coordinated good heralds with less mistakes. That was.. inspiring. 

I got there while trying to unlock ranked and just get there, without trying to necessarily win every single unranked game along the way. I was trying to learn and improve along the way, because there was nothing else to do. Nothing you can do can get you there faster. You have to complete one hundred hours, not one hundred games, to unlock ranked. 

It is not that unlocking Archon is groundbreaking, and means I’m better than low immortals. It’s the fact that I, almost felt no difference. 

Nothing has changed. 

Not when it comes to my happiness, but when it comes to the quality of players on both sides. 

And if things are gradual, and the more you climb, the better players you’d get, I’m not sure that at this rate I’ll see any significant difference even after another 3k MMR above Archon. If the difference between every rank and the next, even up to 3k above, is almost non-existent. 

And the best part is, I haven’t started boosting myself yet. I’ll do that when I’m 12k behavior score ONLY. 

So when I check out TI and STILL find nothing special, except substantially better team coordination, that tells me everything. And that is inspiring, like no other. 

The team who picks certain heroes wins. The other team who fails to pick those heroes, and run out of options, ends up losing, WITH disregard to who’s behind the wheel. 

Meanwhile, on the other hand, every time I test all core heroes after every major change or patch, I also can’t help but notice a consistent pattern. 

Every single core hero, including the agility carries, are all way better and stronger than they ever were before. 

And not just compared to TI 8 or 9, but even compared to three years ago, before the introduction of facets and innates. All of them. Perhaps the only exception to this rule is Drow Ranger. Otherwise, all other heroes are infinitely better, stronger, and faster than they ever were before. You will notice the difference if you played over ten years ago. 

Now when I see TI players, even the chosen ones who won TI three times struggle with hero picking, and when their one or two main heroes get banned, they ALWAYS lose and hugely disappoint in performance, I realize that they don’t understand the new game. In short, they don’t understand DotA. They are still playing DotA of 2013, with advanced farming speed and good team coordination. 

They still don’t realize why DotA, currently, is superior to any game that has ever been created, BECAUSE of the changes that have been introduced since the new frontiers update of 2023 and beyond. Especially the overhaul that took place when innates and facets were introduced. 

The changes that made the game transform into DotA 3, so to speak. 

And every single time I see TI players play like it’s still 2017, my smile grows bigger. They have no idea. 

They don’t understand how powerful cores have become. They don’t know how to play the game the new way with the new powers. 

And that, to me, will always be inspiring. More inspiring than winning TI three times. 

Women don’t think you’re not worthy of their attention. You’re just intimidating. And they don’t understand yet that it is safe to talk to you.

That’s why they flood our DMs on social media when they don’t know who we are.

You must understand, that if a woman initiates talking to you, and you sucked, for whatever reason, they are now stuck in a situation where they don’t know what to do, and there’s no way out. They still have to get rid of you, and they can’t do that violently, as long as you have not committed anything illegal. It is easier for her to ignore you or treat you coldly, if you initiated first, because that is just a reaction that means stay away from me. Somehow, it is easier for women to reject you from the start after the initial evaluation is over, than it is to go towards you with enthusiasm and an open fun spirit, only to find you totally repulsive for reasons that cannot be uncovered until after she already started talking to you. Now she has to turn back from an unsafe situation with a panic attack, shame, embarrassment, and a potential threat to her life or safety. That’s why if you’re a stranger and good-looking and she wants to talk to you, it will be way easier for her to do so if you give her a safe smile like she’s your daughter, than it is if you give her a lustful smile that indicates you find her hot. She likes the validation from the second smile, but she will not initiate talking to you, because it registers as unsafe, or perhaps even potential danger. Since you’re a stranger, if you really find her incredibly hot, and you were alone together, there’s nothing that could stop you from taking advantage of her against her will, even if she still finds you to be beautiful and worthy of dating. And what if you want to hurt her in other ways? Like overpower her and take her stuff away or something. Or just physically harm her for the love of it because you’re sadistic and were just manipulating her in order to hurt her or get what you want from her at the expense of her. All that has to be factored into consideration.

And all of the above has nothing to do with whether or not she really likes you, or finds you attractive.

And that is why most of you guys say I did everything right in terms of becoming a high value man and everything, and still women won’t approach me, ever.

It is because you want to bypass the safety test entirely, and go straight to am I good enough test first, even if the girl still thinks of you as someone who might yell at her if she said hi or good morning in the wrong tone or something.

Lord Vader, this is an unexpected pleasure, we’re honored by your presence.

You may dispense with the pleasantries, commander. I’m here to put you back on schedule.

You look intimidating and unfriendly, flagged as unsafe in women’s mind on sight. That’s why they are scared to talk to you unless they know you. It is not because women don’t talk to strangers. It’s because women don’t talk to scary people.

Otherwise, you’d be able to talk to a stranger waiting for a bus with you if she sees you as safe and fun and worthy of speaking to. 

I have been working with extremely hot girls in their twenties who never talked to me and talked to everybody else at work, even though I was still the alpha male. 

Once I said the equivalent of hey hey hey, you can talk to me. Talk to me here. Stay with me and tell me what’s wrong and I’ll help. 

I forced her to talk to me for professional reasons UNTIL she realized that she’s ALLOWED to talk to me and I’m safe and will never hurt her and nothing bad will happen to her if she talks to me, and I kept all my words strictly PROFESSIONAL as in what should we do about this or that, and will such and such approach or solution work. 

Same day I started that with her, she couldn’t stop talking to me as if I am her high school buddy. Calling me from afar to ask about random stuff or ask questions. A day before that, she never said good morning, she passed by me LIKE I DON’T EXIST, and never asked me even a professional question even if she could really use my help now. Even if I’m the one guy at work that can solve all her work problems. She never asked for help, advice, or anything whatsoever. She never even bothered talking to me at all, about anything, for years. She sat for hours with me for years in the office without saying a single word FOR HOURS. Not even hi or bye. Like I don’t exist. And I am superior to her (status), and the same cool guy my whole life. I thought she really hated me, or didn’t like me at all and wanted nothing to to do with me as a human being for the rest of her life. I thought there was something wrong with me. Or at least, she thought there was something wrong with me, because she talked to all other men freely and openly without holding back like there’s no tomorrow. As if she was fearless, and super friendly. I was the only guy who was left out.

Now she talks to me like she cannot believe herself that she could talk to me and nothing bad will happen to her. Like I’m her best friend from kindergarten. Like she has known me for years, on the very same first day I decided to initiate talking to her like I was begging her to talk with me normally and comfortably. As in please please you can talk to me why don’t you talk to me please, do it. You can talk to me. It’s okay. You can talk to me. Hey hey I’m here, tell me about it. Please tell me what’s going on I can help you with that.

That violates everything that has been ever said before in human history when it comes to how to talk to women and approach them.

Don’t sound too needy bro. Be cool bro. Maintain your frame bro. If she’s interested, she’ll come talk to you bro.

I sucked on purpose, just to prove a point.

I needed to force myself into the job interview, and then they’ll realize that I’m their guy, and then they’ll hire me on the spot. Not if we need you, we’ll call you.

I have your numbers. ~ Gustavo Fring

She really found herself talking to me against her will, until she realized I was safe.

Let that sink in. Instead of feeling unsafe because I forced her to talk to me, without any violence, but almost by begging, and slightly forcing her to keep talking to me even if she doesn’t understand what’s going on yet, and making her have no choice but to talk to me even if she doesn’t care yet, she felt safe because of that, compared to how safe she felt concerning talking to me, before I ever tried to initiate talking to her.

Did that make her feel safe, but uncomfortable? Forced into a friendly or professional relationship against her will even if she doesn’t want to? Did that make her feel like now she has to talk to me against her will because we’re coworkers even though she hates me or has no interest or respect towards me whatsoever?

No.

After several attempts of this, she couldn’t stop talking to me or wanting to talk to me on her own willingly every chance she gets. Even when totally unnecessary. Even if there’s no real reason to talk to me at all at the moment. Not to mention sitting next to me, getting closer physically to me when seated next to me even if she’s talking to someone else. And randomly expressing her feelings happily, enthusiastically, and energetically, about random stuff unrelated to work, and is totally not related to work in any way shape or form. All on the very first day of the initiation.

She’s now comfortable talking to me, like she has known me for life, more than she ever talked to any other guy at work, since the very first day of me initiating talking to her, not just respectfully as random coworkers, but like she finally found something she’s been looking for her whole life, for the very first time. She could not stop herself from talking to me for the rest of the day on her own, every chance she gets, with maximum friendliness, warmth, enthusiasm, kindness, happiness, care, love, respect, and comfort humanly possible.

She talked to me like she finally found her true love and super hero. Like she’s talking to the strongest Avenger.

STRONGEST AVENGER! ~ Thor

Not gonna lie, I enjoyed it, and I felt alive.

All I did was talk to her. Two minutes.

I did not build any muscle. I did not wear anything different. I did not work on my charisma or game. I did not make any money. I did not level up my social status or my placement in the dominance hierarchy. I didn’t buy a new car. I don’t even have a freaking car.

I just talked to the girl, with disregard to her opinion, come hell or high water, until she saw for herself that I’m her dream guy it would be stupid of her to miss out on having fun with me and talking to me for the rest of her life.

What are you trying to say to me, that I need to build muscle and then all the girls will flood my DMs and come get my number?

No, Neo. I’m telling you when you’re ready, you won’t have to.

All I did was talk to her AGAINST HER WILL until she got the message hammered in her head, that she is allowed to talk to me and I’ll not feel bad if she talked to me for any reason whatsoever. 

I tried that on every single female coworker that I came across or had access to in real life at work so far, even the married ones, and the ones who had a boyfriend who they were in a stable relationship with and weren’t looking for an alternative, and got the same results, every single time. Girl talking to everybody in a super friendly manner for years or months and laughing and everything with no boundaries, except me. All treating me like I don’t exist, before the encounter. Before I decided to talk to her for around two minutes and every chance I can get, until she felt safe.

All showed signs of extreme sexual or romantic interest, and not just friendliness, from the start. Since the very first day, of the encounter. Since the very first day I tried talking to them.

I did not use any pickup lines. I did not use the art of how to get the girl in under two minutes. No special conversation starters, or special tactics to keep the conversation going or flowing until I ask her out or successfully land the date. Nothing about me has changed. I’m already top one percent from the start. It wasn’t because I was a stranger to them or the environment was too unsafe to get to know anyone. We were coworkers for years and I was always a ten out of ten Chad high value man with groundbreaking Charisma, beauty, charm, and irresistible irreplaceable unkillable personality and character. Capable of making women laugh more than Jimmy Carr, stronger than Andrew Tate, Smarter than Jordan Peterson.

As wise as Master Yoda, and as powerful as Master Windu. ~ Anakin Skywalker

Yet they still all didn’t give a damn.

Which means all your theories about why women won’t approach men who are perfect in every way imaginable are all wrong.

They will not talk to you, if you are a really high value man, because your presence is intimidating it gives them paralysis. They can’t handle it. Unless you make them feel safe enough to do so. Not by saying the right words. But by just talking to them with respect and interest until they realize you’re safe, interested, and have no problem whatsoever with talking to them for hours on end every single day for the rest of your life.

I thought women didn’t care that I exist. I had no idea that it was because they were intimidated by my presence. Four years ago any woman who found me hot never stopped flirting with me on her own and all I had to do was smile and laugh until they’re done flirting and talking. Now, there’s presence that was forged throughout the years, that I forgot to factor in, because it never mattered when I was younger. Women are afraid to talk to you, until you show them it’s safe. Do not assume that since she never approached me FOR YEARS, ever, that this means she doesn’t care about me and wants nothing to do with me. You could be her dream guy. Her prince charming. Her super hero. All you need to do, is talk to her, with disregard to her current seemingly low level of interest, until she understands, that talking to you, is not a crime that will get her thrown in jail for life. 

People who are struggling with excessive failure in life because of past trauma need a special approach to getting their life together and growing beyond that. Normal rules and general recommendations won’t work for them and then they will be stuck with a life where they constantly think I’ve tried everything and nothing ever makes any difference.