You matter.

You will never succeed, as long as you think you don’t matter. You’re not important, even if that allows you to enjoy life more, because you don’t care, or you don’t give a damn anymore. 

You must think to yourself, I wanna succeed at the highest level, in order to attain the bare minimum. 

The one question that you need to ask yourself in order to become more productive.

The real question is can I do this now. Not am I too tired to do this, or not.

You will always be tired, as long as you are not living a life that is true to you. That’s the whole point of trying to get there, to get to a life where you feel energized, happy, well rested, motivated, and alive all the time. If you’re not there yet, you’ll always feel tired, if not physically, then psychologically. If you wait until you don’t feel tired, you will never do anything.

Can you do this, is a better question that you should be asking yourself instead.

And if your life isn’t your dream life yet, the answer should be always yes. 

Do not let the narcissist ruin your life.

Do not let the narcissist dictate your life. Do not let the narcissist determine what’s right or wrong for you or your life. Live life according to your values, and on your own terms.

Please, live life according to what you think, not what the narcissist thinks. 

Most of your thoughts and actions are governed and determined by what will not offend the narcissist. What the narcissist approves of. What the narcissist thinks you should do. What the narcissist thinks is best for you. What the narcissist or the psychopath will allow you to do.

Do not let the narcissist, psychopath, or abuser influence your decisions on anything whatsoever in life. This can happen on a subconscious level as well, even in the absence of the narcissist.

Live your life to the fullest. You’re free. Do what you want.

Counter that by thinking: I don’t care what the narcissist thinks.

There’s nothing wrong with you. Do what you want.

Motivation begins after you start doing the thing.

You will not have energy before doing the thing, because not having done the thing yet is energy draining in and of itself. You will only start having energy, or getting your energy back, once you start doing the thing. Once you get started.